Are your feelings controlling you?

What role do feelings play in your life?

Do feelings help and improve your relationships, make you happier and more productive? Or are you like so many others constantly tripped up by negative destructive emotions?

Excess negative emotions can undermine all your efforts to have the life you want. Not being able to express how you feel is a major factor in couples having an unhappy relationship.

Not feeling feelings results in a joyless, unhappy life and may deprive you of just the insights and intuition you most desperately need.

For more on the topic of feelings and the role they play in success and failure see today’s post at   “How many feelings do you feel? The feelings problem.”

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